Are there 'magic' words you can use
to get your ex to return your phone calls?
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.
I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from the over 35,000 subscribers just
like you that are trying to put their relationship
So I am going to answer..."How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete strategy.
If you use this technique alone, without
an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may
damage your relationship more than if
they never returned your call.
What NOT to Say!
Before we get into the actual words, let's
go over what message almost NEVER
Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are
And here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.
Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to
But more importantly...
Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.
Have a PLAN!
Rooting For You,